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Sunday, June 8, 2014

¡Bienvenidos a España!

To pick up from my last post (which was at the airport in Norfolk, VA), I had a brief layover in JFK, and boarded my 8 hour flight to Madrid.  I slept for the majority of the flight, had my tv dinner meals of chicken, mashed potatoes, and green beans for dinner, and soon after, a muffin, raisins, and I don't remember what else for breakfast, and with the +6 hours in time change, I arrived in Madrid at 8:30am Friday.  I walked for a ways, took a trolly, walked some more, went through immigration, got my passport stamped, walked some more (probably close to 2 miles all together) and arrived at the "K" section of the airport.  Interestingly, the gate number was not announced until about an hour and a half before boarding, so you just picked a spot in the general area and hung out, constantly checking the big electronic board for updates.
The posts were painted like the rainbow, each color gradually turning into the next.  My "K" area was in the green section.  Yellow was "J".

Starbucks at Barajas Airport in Madrid
I was lucky enough to find a Starbucks, and at one point I actually picked up wi-fi, but only had 15 minutes free before they start charging, so I sent out a few messages to let people know I made it across the ocean.  The Starbucks only seemed to dull the exhaustion, because I was almost nodding off even as I finished off my venti caramel macchiato.  I ended up wrapping my legs around my backpack and snoozing on and off for 2 minute intervals.  Finally the 8 hour layover came to a close, and I boarded my last flight, half an hour later than expected.  I dozed a bit more on the last flight, and peaked out the window from my aisle seat without making it seem like I was staring at my neighbor.  I saw a lot of squares of land, like in NY, farmland, but all brown.  I would occasionally see little houses that dotted the farmland, and I saw one beautiful shimmering field that looked like tan silk... maybe wheat? 

At about quarter to 6 Friday evening, I landed at the small airport of Jerez (pronounced Hereth, almost dropping the end sound completely).  I waited for my luggage, and it didn't come through on the first belt.  Everyone was leaving, the doors had closed on the belt, and I started getting concerned.  Then the belt next to me started moving and my luggage came through, along with the luggage of one couple that had been left behind with me.  I guess we are the special ones.. I didn't give it much thought, I was just happy the luggage was there, not busted open, and I grabbed it and went.  There was a tiny little spot that said customs on the way out, and if you had something to declare you went to the right.. I did not, so I just went straight through.  I was hesitant, but the ladies waved me right through.  On the other side of this, my sponsor and his wife were waiting with a sign for me.  We made quick introductions and made our way to their car.

As we got briefly turned around on our way to Rota, he explained it would be wise to invest in a GPS while here.  The extended drive did let me see some beautiful sunflower fields and also a field full of solar panels, which was quite a sight to see.  Upon arrival to Rota, we stopped at an office next to the base gate and got my orders stamped, which will allow me access to everything until I receive my Spanish ID card.  After that, I got a quick tour around base and then it was time to sign into the hotel.

My picture was not so good from my cell through a car window, so here's one thanks to Google
The Navy Lodge gave me a little goodie bag with mostly junk food: pop tarts, cookies, pop corn, mini single serve cereal boxes, peanut butter cracker sandwiches, and some oatmeal.  This was great for me because the last thing I wanted to do that night was go to the grocery store.  Luckily the commissary and Nex are right behind the Lodge, but I just wanted to unpack and crawl into bed.  With all the sleeping on the plane and in the airport, I still was quite fatigued, and slept for 13 hours that night, waking up once to tell the cleaning lady to come back later and then hanging a do not disturb sign on my door. 

Yesterday after my long night of sleep that led me almost to noon, I prepared for the grocery store, got food, but forgot the essentials, like salt and pepper, and coffee (the prepackaged things from the hotel kitchen might as well be water).  I tried to do laundry, only to find out it only takes american money, which I no longer have, but can get if I go back to the Nex to use the ATM.  I figured that was enough for the day, so I took another nap. 

I finally had a chance to roll out my yoga mat in my little room and did a little bit of yoga to stretch out my tight legs and hips from the flight.  My handstand practice won't fit in this room though (not enough room to safely fall), so I think I'll have to take it outside.  Today I woke up at a reasonable hour (8:30am after going to bed at 12:30) and am trying to reset my stubborn internal clock.  We'll see how long I can resist a nap, but I'm starting to feel like me again. 

It's been very stressful and overwhelming to be doing all of this on my own, but it won't be too long until my husband is able to join me and then we'll be able to look for our next home together.  Until then I'll try to get my essentials in order: sign in at the hospital, get my Spanish ID card, possibly get my license, set up a post office box, etc. 



~Hasta luego~

Thursday, June 5, 2014

Leaving Virginia

Over the past couple weeks we've seen multiple errors in our move.  Firstly the Household Goods office basically forgot to book our move.  Two days before the movers were supposed to come, I called inquiring about our lack of any confirmation email or phone call.  They replied that they did indeed have the same dates as I had, but the move was never put into the "work flow" meaning it was never successfully booked to a moving company.  Due to this snafu, our move was moved from the 2nd to the 4th of June.  We had not received any flight information, so I was anxious about this change considering my original leave date requested was for the 3rd.

On the evening of the 3rd, at 4:00pm, I received a phone call from my mother-in-law saying a lady was trying to get a hold of me regarding my flight itinerary.  I called this lady and she was calling to confirm my flight for 6:00pm!  No email, no phone call, and the fact that this flight was supposed to be delayed 2 days left me speechless.   I'm sorry, no I can't make a flight in 2 hours to move to Spain, especially when I'm on my way to pick up my husband from work, still had a hotel and rental car, and the movers were scheduled to finish the move out of my apartment the following day.  She was not pleased with me, and basically told me I had to wait for the next military flight over there.. which could be anytime within the next 2 weeks.  I hung up with her and, out of stress and frustration, cried my eyes out.  Upon picking my husband up from work an hour later, he told me they (him and one of the gentlemen on the ship that helps us with these things) had been in contact with the same lady after I talked to her, and they were going to push for me getting a flight within the next 5 days, and that they would also comp us 5 nights in a hotel.

The next morning I drove down to pick up my no-fee passport, as I was instructed over the phone by this woman, and I was told, again, that I could not pick up my passport until I had a ticket.  Frustrated, I explained the situation, and told the name of the woman who told me I could come get the passport.  The guy in the passport office then contacted someone down the hall to come down and talk with me and figure things out.  As we walked to her office, I started crying again and explained how many errors I've seen through the Navy for this move and how exhausted and frustrated I was.  She sat me down, asked me when I wanted to leave, told me not to worry, and told me "Let's get you a ticket today".  Maybe a half hour later, I walked out with ticket and passport in hand! 

I hurried home to meet the movers, spent the day reading while they packed the truck, cleaned the last bit of my apartment (cleared out the fridge, wiped everything down, and vacuumed), and then I went to pick up my husband for our last evening together until we're reunited in Spain!

Today is the day.  I repacked my bags, checked out of the hotel, drove to Norfolk International Airport, returned my rental car, lugged my 100+ lbs of luggage to the terminal, and had a seamless check-in process.  I got to talk to my husband one more time on the phone, and now I'm chillin' with my tickets at the gate.  I'll have 2 layovers (the latter being 8 hours in Madrid), but then by tomorrow this time I'll be just landing in Jerez, Spain! 

We'll see how I do with a roughly 24 hour trip, but I'm on my way, and that's what's important.  I've been waiting for this for a long time.  My plan is to take pictures along my travels, but that depends on how much I feel like taking my camera out of my carry-on ;)


Wednesday, May 21, 2014

POV: Personally Owned Vehicle

 Yesterday we switched out our only car for a rental.  Our cute little Toyota is now on its way to Spain!! 



We arrived around 8 at Enterprise to rent a car, and after about 10, maybe 15 minutes, Al and I drove our cars over to the Military Vehicle Processing Center.  After a bunch of paperwork and about 2 hours our car was inspected (making sure to document all the 1,000,000 little scratches and dents) and she was on her way!  On a side note, I figured it was time to name my car.. I know it's kind of silly, but she's been so good to us over the past 4+ years, and just in case she falls off the side of the boat on the way over, she will be known as Lucy! 



 
 We drove off in our temporary rental, a Kia Rio.  It's got a lot more bells and whistles than our car, considering ours has crank windows, manual locks, and, the biggest issue to my husband, no cruise control.  That being said, I still prefer mine.  There's just something about accelorating on an on ramp that isn't as satisfying with an automatic.  I'll miss my manual transmission for sure!


I feel a small sense of relief knowing the first big step is complete.  Our first item is on its way across the ocean to our new home.  What's better is that the woman at the office told us the 45-60 day travel time is a longer estimation to cover any issues with the trip and that the usual time to get from here to there is less than 30 days!  That means our car will get there very soon after Al gets over there, and the 2 weeks I'll be without it, I can probably rely on my feet, my bike, or public transportation.  With the car arriving earlier than expected, it will help immensely in house/apartment hunting and touring around to see our new home country! 


I've been very tired lately due to stress and it's been impacting my cleaning and fitness schedules that I usually keep for myself, but with this big step taken care of, I feel some of the weight has lifted off my shoulders.  There is still a lot to do, but the ball is rolling now.  Hopefully by the end of the week we'll have my flight information, and in approximately 2 weeks I'll be saying a temporary farewell to so many comforts the US has to offer.  I will throw myself into Spanish culture and find new comforts... like Fanta Limón!!! 

Monday, May 12, 2014

NY, Homecoming, and Springtime fun

It's been quite a while since I've written, and I feel like so much has happened.  When I last left you I had just returned from a trip to Texas.  After spending a couple weeks in Virginia, I drove to NY to visit my family.  I kept extremely busy with yard work, I got a temporary membership to the YMCA to keep up my fitness on the days I wasn't raking heavy stones out of the grass, and I spent much needed quality time with my parents (and the pets).  
 

After Easter, I made my drive from Western NY to Southern Virginia for the last time.  I spent the week getting the apartment and myself ready for the return of my husband.  I planned a homecoming meal and stocked the fridge, I cleaned the house, I ate clean, and exercised like a mad woman.  Finally a week had passed and I could go pick up my husband! 

As always, it was a "hurry up and wait" situation.  I had a new teal sundress I'd picked out.. which may have been a bad choice.  I stayed in the car to watch the ship pull in, and when I tried to get out to take some pictures, the rain and wind turned my umbrella inside out, and the freezing temps flipping up my skirt had me running back to the car after only a couple minutes.  After a couple hours I finally saw my handsome man walk off the pier.. Lots of kisses and smiles followed.


Dinner that night was amazing.  Rib eye steaks cooked to perfection (which is awesome since I've never cooked them before), smoked gouda and bacon cauliflower mash (think mashed potatoes, but cauliflower), homemade salted rosemary bread, and parmesan baked mushrooms... of course all accompanied by some Merlot from the Finger Lakes.   For dessert: cheesecake with hot fudge and caramel drizzle.  He might be spoiled, but even after a short (not as long as most deployments) time away, I was feeling so thankful to have him home with me.  We can handle everything the Navy throws at us, but we're both looking forward to the day when we won't ever have to be separated again.

Since his return it's been nothing but work work work.  This past weekend was our last full weekend since he'll have to work at least one day for the rest of our weekends here, and we had a great time.  We threw a little farewell get together on Saturday and went all out on the food.  Since so many of our friends here have already moved away (as is the life in a military community), it was only us plus 5, but it was just right.  We bought a really cheap grill to make turkey burgers and cheddar wurst, I made my grandma's potato salad, baked beans, and of course set up enough snacks to feed 20 people.  Three kinds of cheese, crackers, a whole veggie platter with dip,three types of chips, salsa, watermelon, and pineapple.  I think it's the way of my people... my dad always tries to feed 20 people too :)  Many drinks were had as well, and on the following day, after everyone was cured from their hangovers (mostly me), we all went for one last beach trip to Sandbridge Beach.  The weather was perfect.. low eighties, sunny, and we had our own little spot on the beach.  The water was quite brisk, but after running in to waist deep, there's no turning back.  


Yoga has still been keeping me sane, and busy.  I'm participating in 4 instagram challenges this month to keep myself improving in multiple areas.  There is one for back bends, one for beginner handstands (so I can focus on the fundamentals), there is one handstand challenge where you match the shape every day (picture above is from that challenge), and there is one challenge which is actually guided towards beginner yoga basics, but sometimes the basics are more important.  

I still don't have a move date yet (actual itinerary) but the estimated departure is only a few weeks away.  The apartment complex has it's notice of vacate, we're in the process of scheduling the movers, and soon (I hope) we'll be sending the car for a head start on us so we can make sure the timing lines up for our Spain registration process.  There is a lot of emotions floating around in my head... anxiety, excitement, annoyance, stress.. but as long as I keep them in check and continue my yoga and other fitness, I think I can make the best out of this experience.  I am so thankful I have my wonderful husband here to be my support.  

Keep checking for updates in the next few weeks... but there's a good chance my next blog post will be upon arrival in Spain. 

Friday, March 28, 2014

Deployment, Texas, and Backbends


Photo credit: Sarah Street Photography (Facebook and website)

My husband and I said goodbye earlier this month as I headed off to Texas and he headed off to his first ship deployment.  During our first separation, he went off to basic training.  During the 2 months, there were letters, a few phone calls for good behavior, and I had researched Navy basic training to see what he would be going through day to day.  I was working 2 jobs and would sometimes hop on Google maps at the end of the day to calm my mind by looking at where he was at the moment (my version of looking at the moon and knowing your loved one can see the same moon.. it gave me a sense of connection to him).  I spent all my free time exercising and writing letters (we have a HUGE folder full of boot camp letters).

Reunited after bootcamp

Our second separation was for my husband's IA (Individual Augmentee - being sent somewhere for a set amount of time to perform a job).  He went to Bahrain for what was suppose to be 9 months, but miraculously turned into only 6.  This was the longest separation, but was made easier by daily skype or phone calls.  With not much else to do besides his daily work shift, we talked for 1-2 hours at least once a day, but usually twice.  I spent my time exercising and traveling back and forth to my parents' home in western NY. 

Reunited after 6 months in Bahrain
This first official deployment has been the hardest on me so far.  Not knowing where he is, or what it's like to be on a ship has not allowed me that comfort I used to have during our past separations.  I also have been limited to short emails. No phone calls or Skype out in the ocean.  I'm looking forward to the ship going to different ports because that will mean I can (hopefully) get a phone call, or better yet, Skype.  Until then, I wait, and curse deployments daily.

To keep myself busy, I planned a trip to Texas, which knocked out 2 birds with one stone since I wanted to see her before I left for Spain anyways.  To make things better, we were able to coordinate my visit with her baby shower!  She's 34 weeks along as of this past Monday, and I was grateful to see her in this stage of her life, as she's the closest thing I'll ever have to a sister.  We met each other in preschool, and have been friends ever since (with a few sisterly spats along the way).  With some complications putting her on bed rest, her mother has been staying with her to help out.  With my visit, her mother took the chance to go home to NY and spend time with her husband, so I took over the cooking and cleaning.  Every day my friend would complain over me working in her home and not relaxing and enjoying my vacation.  I was her guest after all.  I would explain to her over and over that I didn't mind cooking or cleaning, and it kept me busy, which is a must when trying not to think of deployments.  I got to help organize the nursery and more importantly, I got to spend time with my best friend.  Long talks, some laughs, and lots of reminiscing.

My best friend and her adorable baby belly! So gorgeous!

During all of these events, I've been participating in a March daily yoga challenge to improve my back bends.  Every day a new pose is posted on instagram by the three host yoginis (beginner and advanced versions) and the goal of each pose is to either strengthen the back or increase the flexibility, or both.

If all goes to plan, I should be able to find out my travel itinerary for my move on May 1st. Until then, I'll be keeping busy with yoga, cardio, strength/circuit training, and visiting with family.

~ Until Next Time ~

Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Be a Warrior, Not a Worrier

This phrase speaks to me at a personal level today: "Be a Warrior, not a Worrier".  February marks the last full normal month we'll have here in Virginia.  My husband will be gone on and off, and I will be doing my own traveling for our remaining time here before the move to Spain.  This makes the crunch of the deadline sound so much louder.  It's easy for me to feel anxious or worried at times like this... especially with all of the unanswered questions I still have.

That being said, a positive step I've taken has been participating in an Instagram challenge called "inversions make you hot".  It helps encourage me (and others) to practice yoga every day.  February's challenge is all about inversions.  This can be arm balances, or other poses that turn your torso upside down.  Not only does this help with strength, balance, and flexibility, but also improves trust in your body to hold you at these somewhat unnatural poses.


lotus shoulder stand

tucked knee hand stand (can hold for about 4 seconds at the moment.. looking to improve)


I like to think of inversions as the internal "face lift".  Every day gravity pulls your organs down.  After years and years of that, your internal self isn't where it once was.  Daily inversions help that.  In a Yoga Journal article (here), entitled "Benefits of Inversions", four major body systems are said to be improved with regular practice of inversion poses: Cardiovascular, lymphatic, nervous, and endocrine.

Doing something positive with my body, improving my yoga, and attempting/improving different inversion poses has helped me be more of a "warrior".  If I practice the physical aspects of yoga, I will also try to practice the mental aspects as well, including the following yoga wisdom to stay in the present so that I can try to stop worrying so much about the future.   

phrase found on Pinterest
 Until Next Time
~Namaste~

Friday, January 31, 2014

Bulgogi and Kimbap




When I was 9 years old we had 2 Korean exchange students stay with us for 10 days.  It was a gateway into the exciting world of travel, language, culture and food!  Since then I've loved and explored many different cultures and cuisines, but Korean has always held a special place in my heart.



My specialties are bulgogi (불고기) and kimbap (긴밥).  Bulgogi is korean marinated beef sliced very thin, and kimbap is a korean version of a sushi roll.  

Kim bop before being sliced
If you're making both, the first thing you want to do is get the beef prepared in the marinade.  I usually buy sirloin tip, but really any beef cut will probably work.  The key is to slice it very thin.  Usually I aim for pieces that are about 1-2 inches long, and I trim all the fat.

In a separate bowl I mix the marinade, then pour over the sliced beef, give it a quick toss and put it in the fridge.  You want to marinade it for no less than 2 hours, and up to 24 hours.

Bulgogi Ingredients:
- 3 pounds sirloin tip (or other beef cut)
-  1/2 cup soy sauce
- 1/4 cup sesame oil
- 1/4 cup sugar
- 1 tsp. black pepper
- 2 cloves garlic (minced)
- 1/2 cup sliced green onion
- 2 Tbsp. roasted sesame seeds

While that's marinading you can start preparing all the ingredients for the rolls.  This can be a little time consuming, as you have to prepare every ingredient separately, and everything should be cooled off by the time you assemble the rolls.  The first thing is to cook some rice.  The rice for these rolls comes in a few different names. I've found it labeled as sushi rice, Korean sticky rice, glutinous rice, or you can ask the shop owner.  The rice I used for these rolls didn't say any of these, but it had Korean writing all over the bag and the shop owner said it was good for kimbap.  He also told me if I was buying less than a 15lb bag I wasn't eating enough rice... So I got a 15lb bag, and I think it'll be gone before we move.



I made 3 cups to start with in my rice cooker.  When it was done, I added a drizzle of sesame oil and some salt, gave it a stir, and waited for it to cool.

Meanwhile I moved onto the other ingredients.  In my kimbap I use egg, carrot, spinach, daikon (pickled radish), and spam, which I may leave out if I know I will be serving it to vegetarians, or people who don't really like spam.  You can really put anything you'd like in there.  The daikon is usually in any kimbap you might buy at a store or restaurant, and the egg and carrot are pretty common too, but really you can put anything in them.

With the eggs, you will wisk them up, adding a little salt, and pour them into a hot pan primed with olive oil or sesame oil.  Think of them like an omelet that you don't fold.  I like to put a lid on mine to help cook the top, but if you need to, and you are skillful, you can flip the egg towards the end to finish cooking the top.  After you remove it from the pan, it will be a nice circular piece of egg.  This is important: let it cool!  You need to slice it into strips, and if you try to slice it when still warm it will most likely tear.

Slice the carrot into matchstick pieces, give them a quick saute in the pan with some sesame oil and salt.  Don't cook them, just heat them up for about a minute, remove them, and let them cool.  Next you can add your spam into the pan.  I slice mine into strip like pieces so I can line them up in my rolls.  You can use any meat for this as long as it is in strip form... You can even use leftover bulgogi!

For the spinach, you want to boil a pot of salted water, toss in the spinach, and take out after cooking for a minute or two.  Strain the cooked spinach, run cold water over it, and then what I usually do is ball it up and squeeze it until most of the water has been wrung out.  Then (optional) I take a crushed/minced clove of garlic and mix it in with the spinach.

 The daikon and seaweed wraps do not need any preparation unless you buy the daikon that has not been pre-sliced, and then, you got it, just slice it into strips!

pre-sliced daikon
roasted seaweed sheets


Once everything is prepared you're ready to start rolling!  What you'll need to roll them is a bamboo rolling mat.  You can find that, along with the seaweed, daikon, and sticky rice at your local oriental grocery store.  You might be able to find the roller, the rice, and/or the seaweed at your grocery store depending on how good the asian section is, but the daikon will most likely send you to the oriental store anyways.



I like to set up a rolling station that is organized so I'm not running all over the kitchen for each roll.  Not pictured is also a source of water.  I usually use my little tea cups for a little water.  It helps with sealing the rolls after they've been rolled.

Now the tricky part.  Lay a piece of seaweed on your bamboo mat.  Spread a thin layer of rice on the seaweed, leaving a half inch gap at the far end.  About 2 inches from your side of the seaweed square is where you will line up your ingredients.  Then you will use the mat and your fingers to roll the piece into a tight roll.  Dip your fingers in the water and use to help seal the edge of the seaweed to the roll.  I failed at taking pictures of this process because my hands were busy, but I found a couple pictures and a video (here) online that might help.  They aren't exactly what I do, but are very close.

Example of how to lay our your ingredients (found on google images)
Once you have your kimbap tightly rolled, you can use a sharp non-serrated knife to slice it into pieces.  Optional: If you decide it needs a little more flavor you can dip in soy sauce or sriracha.

Here's the breakdown of ingredients I used for 7 rolls. (I actually ended up making 13, which is why most of these are halved.  There were 3 of us eating them for 2 days and we still didn't finish them, so I would suggest starting small).

Kimbap Ingredients
- 3 eggs
- half a carrot
- half a can of spam
- half a package of daikon
- approx. 3 cups raw spinach
- 1 garlic clove
- sesame oil (to taste)
- salt (to taste)
- 7 squares of roasted seaweed (this is cheap.. one 50 piece package cost me about $5.00)
- 3 cups raw sticky rice, cooked

While you munch on the delicious kimbap you've prepared, you can put another pot of rice on, and pull your marinating beef out of the fridge. 

I cook my bulgogi in a wok over medium-high heat in batches, rinsing wok quickly between each batch.  After it's all cooked, you can eat it on the side of the rice, over top of the rice, or take the traditional route (or what we were taught by a Korean friend).  Our friend showed us that when served with romaine lettuce leaves, you should take a piece of lettuce, put on some rice, add some bulgogi, roll it up, and eat it in one bite!  For this reason I like to tear my lettuce up a bit to make it more manageable so I don't look like a chipmunk.

You can eat the bulgogi any way you want, and when you smell it, you'll have to fight the urge to just eat it straight out of the pan!

Both of these Korean dishes wouldn't be legit without a side of kimchi (seen in the first picture on the left).  I don't make this, and usually only buy small batches when I go to the oriental grocery store.  If you're not familiar with it, it's spicy fermented cabbage that Koreans eat every day, sometimes 3 times a day... but be warned, it is notoriously pungent. 

Enjoy your Korean feast!  Leave me a comment if you try this recipe or if you have any questions.

Bon Appetit!
or in Korean:

잘 먹겠습니다 (jal meokkesseumnida)